freebies
i imagine that the majority of these resources are downloaded in the middle of the night. you can’t sleep, you’re worried you’ll never get over the end of this relationship, and you feel desperate for something to change. you want to get your hands on anything that can help. i get it (and I’ve been there, too).
slow down, take a deep, deep breath. you’ll get through this. i promise.
these tools will help you feel the uncomfortable feelings so you can move forward with your healing. they serve as gentle guides to get you on a different path to understanding yourself, your grief, and your future.
(really wish a resource existed that you don’t see below? send lindsey an email and i’ll put it on the list!)
check ‘em out below!…
resources we love to share with our clients
Books
Group: How One Therapist and a Group of Strangers Saved my life, by Christie Tate
Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: A therapist, HER therapist, and lives revealed, by Lori Gottlieb
It’s Called a Breakup Because it’s Broken, by Greg Behrendt and Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence, by Esther Perel
Set Boundaries, Find Peace, by Nedra Glover Tawwab
Come As You Are, by Emily Nagoski
It’s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcisstic People, by Ramani Durvasula, PhD
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma, by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.
It Didn’t Start With You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle, by Mark Wolynn
Podcasts
Where should we Begin?
The Anxious Truth
The Mental Illness Happy Hour
Coping with Ghosting
Self Help-less
Heavyweight
Workbooks
Attachment Theory Workbook for Couples: Excercises to Strengthen and Grow your Relationships, by Elizabeth Gillette, LCSW
The Set Boundaries Workbook: PRactical Exercises for Understanding Your Needs, by Nedra Glover Tawwab